TROUBLED LOVER
I have a situation. I am a top and there are two guys who am confused over. One is well behaved, decent, focused, reliable, honest, doesn't keep crowds (or unreasonable friends), intelligent, success driven and responsible. But the problem is that he's a virgin.
No matter how much we try and how much lube we use, his hole cannot take my dick.
Sometimes, he will start crying because he really wants me to be happy. He wants to please me no matter what.
The other guy is very loud, an extrovert and a power bottom. He loves sex a lot and is always ready to give me as much as I want. But he has too many notorious looking friends and is super active on all gay platforms. I really dont mind all these but the problem i have with him is that he's not a serious person.
No job, no motivation, no focus or ambition. He claims he loves me but I suspect it's because of the financial support i give him and sex.
Also, anytime he sees any of my cute friends who are tops ( or even straight), he will ask if they have big dicks like me.
Even on gay platforms, he doesn't shy away from asking for big dick guys.
whenever, I point this out to him, he will say its just for jokes (The same excuse for the grindr app on his phone).
Am the kind of man who believes Sex is a very important part (among others) for a relationship to thrive.But want to settle down and build a future with someone.
Am confused. Who do I go for?
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It'll be easy to suggest you go for the goal-driven guy. A lot of gay men don't get the best sexual experiences in their relationship. If sex is more of a priority than a faithful companion, I suggest you go for someone other than the guys you posted about because the second guy is not even good for a fuck buddy type of arrangement. I'm not a relationship expert but if you can do other sexual activities than anal sex with the first guy, you'll have a lasting relationship.
ReplyDeleteAs I said, set your priorities right and hope for the best gay relationship.
Good luck
If #1 is that willing he can learn how to take dick, even if you have a double digit dick. Sounds like you are both inexperienced. He needs to douche properly. The fear of an accident can make guys clench more subconsciously. Get him nice and relaxed with some wine and a massage. Then pay some attention to his hole without any pressure that penetration must occur. It's just a massage, if it happens, grest, if not no drama. Eat that bussy real good (if you won't eat ass, you are not ready either) and massage his prostate with your fingers. Don't poke in and out. Bend your finger towards the back and stimulate his prostate. Alternate with your tongue and fingers, he'll be good and open. Slide gently in and tell him to press back on the dick while you slide in. Clenching makes it uncomfortable and painful. If he presses back on the dick, the sphincter will open nicely and receive the meat. Stay there for a couple of minutes before gentle strokes until he is begging to be fucked. You are welcome.
ReplyDeleteWow!!! Really? 😯. Great advice by the way.
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